Birth, partnership, and death are major turning points for all humans, and ceremonies are needed to mark their transformation power for individuals, families, and communities. At First Church we recognize these major life passages through services of dedication, wedding ceremonies, services of union, and memorial services.
Child Dedication
The adoption or birth of an infant is a significant event in the life of any family. Suddenly there is a new person to care for, and roles and routines change.
At First Church we recognize these transitions for members and established friends with a service of child dedication. Services of Child Dedication are generally performed during Sunday morning worship services (if needed, another time can be chosen). The service itself takes about 10 minutes, and is shared with both the adults and children of the congregation
During the service, the parent(s), sibling(s), and godparent(s) are invited to the front of the sanctuary to share their promises with the new infant or child. The congregation actively participates by promising to take an active role in the development of the child.
Dedications are most appropriate for children 3 and under, although there are circumstances when it is also appropriate to dedicate older children. Prior to the service, I enjoy meeting with the family to discuss their hopes and fears, as well as any changes that have taken place. Families are encouraged to add readings or gifts that will make the service meaningful for them. Based on our meeting a service is specially written for each family.
Weddings and Services of Union
Congratulations! You have found a life partner. At First Church we rejoice in the union of all loving couples. In order to plan a wedding or service of union at First Church, the first step is to contact me (contact information located below). An initial meeting will be set. During this meeting we will get to know one another (if we don't already), discuss your relationship, plans for the ceremony, and ideas for the service. A second meeting will be set to finalize service plans. Couples are encouraged to select readings, vows, and music. If interested or needed, I refer couples for pre-marital counseling.
Our sanctuary offers a lovely setting for services, although I also join couples in private homes or outdoor ceremonies. If the service is held at the church there are a variety of arrangements that need to be made with the keyboardist, sexton, and office administrator. It is best to schedule your wedding date 6 months in advance to insure the availability of both myself and the sanctuary. Due to the number of requests, not all non-members services can be
accommodated. If I am unavailable, other UU clergy will be recommended.
Memorial Services
The death of a loved one is a time of powerful emotions and change. Memorial services are a great comfort. At First Church we honor those who have died with a celebration of life, a service that shares their life and meaning. I meet with families once or twice to talk about their loved one and to plan a service. Careful attention is given to pastoral care and each unique expression of grief. Families are encouraged to choose meaningful readings and music. Eulogies are specially written for each person.
Services can be held at First Church or in a funeral home. Due to the number of requests, not all non-member services can be
accommodated. If I am unavailable, other UU clergy will be recommended. All services are free for members. Non-members are charged a fee. If you would like to know more, or would like to schedule a service, please contact me, Reverend Sharon Dittmar, at (513) 281-4697 or
minister@firstuu.com
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